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Daniel L. Cooper's avatar

Bullying is an epidemic in todays society that’s never bern fully addressed, in my professional opinion. And I say “professional” due to my years of law enforcement, firefighting, and paramedic work.

I dealt with bullying when I was growing up, in all levels of me education. I was the biggest child in the school. I don’t care what grade or school I attended, I was the biggest. I was raised on a farm. I didn’t wear the high dollar clothes the other kids wore. And, being bigger, I had a tendency to be clumsier at times. Bullying pretty much kept me well known in the principles, or deans, office.

In my junior high (now middle) school I attended we had several kids that made it their day to tell you about the clothes you wore, or your style of haircut, or the fact that you were heavy, “fat”, “ugly”, etc. Personally, I got tired of it. I started trying to knock them out.

Things didn’t change in high school, or college. And, I have to admit now, it was their bullying that led me to the law enforcement career. All through my 29+ years as a law enforcement officer, firefighter and paramedic I saw bullying going on. I even still dealt with it at the places where I worked, believe it or not. But when you stand 6’7” and weigh 480+, able to pick up the ass end of a tractor, people have a tendency to not smart-talk, or bully you.

I remember one incident at the sheriff’s department I worked at. I walked in the back door one day to start duty when one of our department bullies rounded the corner and said something smart to me. He happened to catch me at a time I didn’t feel up to listening to any of his B, S,, so I stopped and ask him what he said. He laughed and in a smart attitude he repeated himself gif his buddies that stood there. I picked his 5’5” body up by the collar with hand and ‘gently’ placed him gently up on the wall where I could talk to him eye to eye. I explained to him if anything like that, or the other crap I’d heard him spout off to some of the others came out of his mouth ever again, I’d personally take him out back and teach him some manners in a style I was positive he’d not like.

Long story short, he got the message, and calmed his bullying nonsense down.

Not everyone can handle a bully like I did, or could. And it’s a real problem still, in todays society. We have a lot of people, children, teenagers, and adults, committing suicide every year just because they are bullied.

This is an epidemic that we need to stop!

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Lloyd Miner's avatar

"Thoughts of suicide and murder frequently entered my young mind then." - glad you made it out the other side without committing either.

I agree with Daniel below: bullying is a global epidemic. Along with bringing back civics, we should teach civility.

A central question we all need to answer: as humans what is our responsibility to each other and to the planet we share both with our own and many other species?

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