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Sherman Alexie's avatar

This phenomenon is also present in the Native American world. Public facing Indians are overwhelmingly of the left and far left so that gives the false impression that leftism is the default mode. It's not.

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I think the gay rights movement is also being hijacked in a similar manner by the far left. I'm a gay guy who used to consider myself an ally for transexual people, but these days I imagine many would classify me as a transphobe.

I considered myself an ally because I believed (and still believe) that some people experience profound gender dysphoria and take steps to relieve that pain through medical procedures, fashion choices, etc. My heart went out to those people and I wished them every happiness. I was happy to call such a person he or she, whichever they preferred.

By my own definition, I'm still an ally to transexual people but what I believed is no longer good enough. Now I'm required to sign on to the idea that genders don't exist except as they are individually imagined and "identified" with. I'm required to believe that there is no such thing as a boy or a girl, a man or a woman -- at least not anatomically speaking. I'm required to use language that's neutral and degendered, required to identify myself by my preferred pronouns. As a gay man, some would go so far as to say I'm required to be open to dating transmen. It's too much.

I'm told that legislation being proposed in some states to limit the medical transitioning of minors is anti-LGBT. Is it though? There are many things I love about being a gay men, but my sexual preference hasn't endowed me with any special medical knowledge. I have no idea whether performing potentially irreversible medical procedures on trans-identifying minors is a good idea. How would I know such a thing without deciphering a great deal of medical research I'm not trained to decipher? The idea that I should automatically have an opinion on a medically cloudy issue like this is absurd.

Can we please go back to the day when gay rights was about being free to love (or just have sex with) any consenting adult who would have me? The rest of it is outside my wheelhouse.

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